Love is not rude.
~Guard the Golden Rule - treat your spouse and family members the same way you want to be treated.
~No double standards - be as considerate to your spouse as you are to strangers and coworkers.
~Honor requests - consider what your spouse already asked you to do or not to do. If in doubt, then ask.
Challenge for Day 5 is to ask your spouse to tell you three things that cause him or her to be uncomfortable or irritated with you. You must do so without attacking them or justifying your behavior. This is from their perspective only.